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A recording from Andrea J. Medaris, Psy.D. and The Therapist Who Came Undone's live video
53 mins ago
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Marketing hurts my feelings
On writing a "book about desire"
9 hrs ago
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Insight is not intimacy
Couple Stories: 1/3. We need experience, not explanation.
Aug 4
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July 2026
Sometimes you should go to bed angry
Nothing good happens after two a.m., including me.
Jul 28
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This picture is AI. In more ways than one.
My Substack, it turns out, is many rooms.
Jul 24
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Mechanics of Wanting, Part 3
Your passion is exactly where you left it.
Jul 21
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Mechanics of Wanting, Part 2
A little monkey science, a little calculus, and the two drives running your love life.
Jul 14
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Mechanics of Wanting, Part 1
The different faces of lost desire
Jul 7
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Ladybugs know things
My mind winds around corners.
Jul 6
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June 2026
Coffee can save your relationship (& your independence)
I wrote this a few years ago, and I’ve told some version of this story in every couple workshop I’ve ever done.
Jun 29
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Meet the cast
I have the week off work, and I’m using it to add all the clinical material (read: actual interesting stories) to the book.
Jun 27
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Why I'm here
It feels like a good time to make a more official introduction, since there are 86 of you now!
Jun 25
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